Minister’s Message June 2026

Minister’s Message June 2026

Dear ones,

It is with mixed emotions that I write to you today to tell you that I will be ending my ministry with the congregation at the end of December of this year. Through a long discernment process it has become clear that I am no longer called to the work of ministry in a congregation. I have been working in the church for 50 years now and my time in this work is coming to an end. My departure is not caused or influenced by any unhappiness or conflict in our relationship or in the congregation. I am not leaving you to start work in another congregation. My plan is to focus on family and health and to continue my discernment about the possibilities for ministry outside of a congregational setting.

I will be sad to leave you. Together we have crafted a community that is more caring, more welcoming, more supportive, more justice-seeking, more impactful, and kinder. We have woven this ministry together and I couldn’t be prouder. I am so grateful for the shared ministry we have practiced and am deeply appreciative of collaborating with the congregation’s leaders and everyone who has brought their love and talent to the thriving of this beloved community.

I shared my decision with the members of the Board and Committee on Ministry earlier this week and they and I have already been in conversation with Rev. Summer Albayati, our UUA Pacific Western Region liaison, and with the UUA’s Transition office. The Board will begin to clarify next steps in the process and timeline for working with the Region and the UUA to find possibilities for ministry after my departure.

I know that this may be a difficult time. I hope that you will take the time to kindly and lovingly support each other through this transition. I am, myself, feeling a wide range of emotions, but especially gratitude for the collaboration in ministry of the leaders and members of the congregation, sadness at my future departure, and hope for the future of the congregation.

in love and gratitude,

Rev. Ian

 

Bread Not Stone: Minister’s Message May 2026

Bread Not Stone: Minister’s Message May 2026

Our services this coming month draw us into reflection on love and kindness and how they are central to our lives including how we respond to evil and how we weave learning into the ministry of our community.

Ongoing learning and reflection on our deepest values is central to healthy, thriving ministries. It is one of the reasons that congregations provide sabbatical time for their ministers: to help them deepen their understanding of their ministry and reflect on the work that they are doing. It is an extended time for the minister away from the day-to-day work of the congregation for study, rest, reflection, and rejuvenation. This time away helps to decrease burnout in long-term ministries and give the minister opportunity for renewal.

And at the end of my fourth year as your minister in 2025, the congregation granted me four months of sabbatical, two of which I took in July and August of 2025. I will be away for the second half of my sabbatical this coming July and August. 

Part of my plan for sabbatical is to continue to deepen my connection to my own theological grounding in religious naturalism and having an embodied faith. I’m also hoping to explore ministry in the context of aging, dying, and grief. And I will, of course, be spending some contemplative time with the works of Ursula Le Guin and other speculative fiction authors.

During the time of my sabbatical, I will be fully away from the congregation and out of contact. The Board, the Committee on Ministry, the Worship Team, and the Care Committee have been in conversation about how the congregation will manage in my absence. To that end, the congregation has again hired a minister who will be available for pastoral care and who will preach four times in July and August (about what I would preach). 

I am delighted to share that we have asked the Rev. Ellie Kilpatrick to serve our congregation as Sabbatical Minister during my absence. Rev. Ellie lives in Escondido (north of San Diego) and has served congregations in Livermore and Solana Beach, California, and Pasco, Washington. She is a valued colleague and I know you’ll be in good hands over the summer with her. You’ll have an opportunity to meet her in June

Sabbaticals are wonderful opportunities for renewal for both the congregation and the minister who serves them. I am grateful for this time for rest and study—as I remain grateful to be your minister as we continue crafting this shared ministry together.

in peace and love

Rev. Ian

 

Bread Not Stone: Singing Resistance

As I’m writing this, my ears and my heart are ringing with the sounds of voices making powerful music. 

 Our glorious choir, under the direction of Jim Tong, brought us deep and healing worship earlier in March—signing to us songs of inspiration and resilience and quiet, clear faith. The music in our services is not just there to be pretty. It is a living way of gathering in worship, of expressing our hearts, finding different ways to enliven our spirits than just words can do. 

 And our first Singing Resistance gathering brought our voices together with others in our community to heal and find hope and to resist tyrant and violence. 

 Coming together in singing and chanting amplifies our voices and shares our vision of the beloved community in ways that can't be ignored. Throughout our history movements for change and justice have sung and chanted new realities into our hearts and minds. Pete Seeger once said: “Songs are sneaky things. They can slip across borders. Proliferate in prisons. Penetrate hard shells . . . I always believed that the right song at the right moment could change history.” And the practicing of singing in a group can bring us inspiration and connection and deep healing as we experience and create both calm beauty and joyful noise together.

 I know that the voices of the community, raised in resistance and hope at the rallies around the country in the days ahead will continue to inspire us and fire us up for the shared work of singing the beloved community into being. 

 in peace and harmony,

Rev. Ian

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Recently, Rod Belshee (our Board president) and I participated in a meeting of the Inland Congregations United for Change group—an early gathering of clergy and lay leaders from congregations in the east of the Coachella valley, coming together to collectively plan for how we might all respond faithfully to the painful reality of our current situation—how we can weave and mend and wash together.

It was an early meeting, nothing concrete was planned yet, but this is one way that we in our congregation are finding ways to live into our interconnectedness in our valley home. I have also begun meeting with clergy of various faiths in Palm Springs to coordinate and support.

And a small group of congregants has been researching and listening and learning what is going on over the whole of the valley to see where we might act in support of our values and in support of our neighbors who are threatened, attacked, or ignored by the current federal administration.

This is the work of “frontline responders” as Deepa Iyer describes in Social Change Now: “addressing community, crises by marshaling and organizing resources, networks, and messages.”

Our Social Justice team already leads us in work that helps and supports our community and we are seeking to broaden and deepen that work in the face of the current crisis. Keep your ears and eyes open over the coming weeks and months as we share together ways to be faithfully effective and ways to nurture local relationships.

We do this because it is the right thing to do. We do this because our neighbors are in peril and we want to protect them. We do this because the values we profess—of justice and interdependence and pluralism and generosity—hold us to this work. We do this because we are interwoven into a single garment.

in peace and love

Rev. Ian

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Dear ones,

As you read this we are heading toward Election Day on November 5. Though we know (and fear) that we won’t know for sure the results of the election on that day, it will certainly be a moment of great change in our political and social lives.

I know that many of you carry anxiety and fear and anger and disbelief at the state of our political and social lives. I do as well. And I am reminded strongly in times like these why we come together in community. To care for each other. To share our fears and anxieties so that we can feel heard and seen and so that we can see and hear those we care for. To share our joys and hopes so that we can strengthen and enliven our individual and collective possibilities.

Bread not Stone: The Past and the Future

Dear ones,

An ad was placed in The Desert Sun in October of 1959 that asked readers “Are you a Unitarian and don’t know it?” It was placed by the Rev. Ray Manker, from Riverside. And then on the evening of Wednesday, October 19, 1959, a diverse collection of people—a few humanists, liberals, and at least one person who was already Unitarian—gathered for the first time at the Palm Springs Chamber of Commerce office.

Since then, this community has grown and thrived, through struggle and wandering in the desert, through ministers coming and going, through dreaming and hard work. And here we are, 65 years later, stronger than ever!

Bread Not Stone: Looking Forward with Hope and Curiosity

 

Dear ones, the new year arrives as it always does. Whatever we do, the day and nights and the seasons continue in their cycles.

My heart is full thinking of our community and the ministry we do together: a ministry of healing, a ministry of transformation, a ministry of justice, a ministry of kindness, a ministry of love. I have such deep gratitude for the love and effort and skill and solidarity you all bring to the work of this congregation in our hearts and in the world.

I know that times are difficult, that the world is messy and often cruel. And that fear and anger and anxiety are all to easy to experience.

But I also know that we continue to grow in resilience, in connection, in solidarity, and in loving our neighbor. We grow because we are not alone, because we build relationships and communities centered in justice and love and care.

May this year ahead be a year of health and curiosity and hope for each of you and those you love most dearly. And may it be a year of peace, kindness, justice, and love in our nation and in the world.

with love and hope

Rev. Ian

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Recently, Rod Belshee (our Board president) and I participated in a meeting of the Inland Congregations United for Change group—an early gathering of clergy and lay leaders from congregations in the east of the Coachella valley, coming together to collectively plan for how we might all respond faithfully to the painful reality of our current situation—how we can weave and mend and wash together.

It was an early meeting, nothing concrete was planned yet, but this is one way that we in our congregation are finding ways to live into our interconnectedness in our valley home. I have also begun meeting with clergy of various faiths in Palm Springs to coordinate and support.

And a small group of congregants has been researching and listening and learning what is going on over the whole of the valley to see where we might act in support of our values and in support of our neighbors who are threatened, attacked, or ignored by the current federal administration.

This is the work of “frontline responders” as Deepa Iyer describes in Social Change Now: “addressing community, crises by marshaling and organizing resources, networks, and messages.”

Our Social Justice team already leads us in work that helps and supports our community and we are seeking to broaden and deepen that work in the face of the current crisis. Keep your ears and eyes open over the coming weeks and months as we share together ways to be faithfully effective and ways to nurture local relationships.

We do this because it is the right thing to do. We do this because our neighbors are in peril and we want to protect them. We do this because the values we profess—of justice and interdependence and pluralism and generosity—hold us to this work. We do this because we are interwoven into a single garment.

in peace and love

Rev. Ian

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Dear ones,

As you read this we are heading toward Election Day on November 5. Though we know (and fear) that we won’t know for sure the results of the election on that day, it will certainly be a moment of great change in our political and social lives.

I know that many of you carry anxiety and fear and anger and disbelief at the state of our political and social lives. I do as well. And I am reminded strongly in times like these why we come together in community. To care for each other. To share our fears and anxieties so that we can feel heard and seen and so that we can see and hear those we care for. To share our joys and hopes so that we can strengthen and enliven our individual and collective possibilities.

Bread not Stone: The Past and the Future

Dear ones,

An ad was placed in The Desert Sun in October of 1959 that asked readers “Are you a Unitarian and don’t know it?” It was placed by the Rev. Ray Manker, from Riverside. And then on the evening of Wednesday, October 19, 1959, a diverse collection of people—a few humanists, liberals, and at least one person who was already Unitarian—gathered for the first time at the Palm Springs Chamber of Commerce office.

Since then, this community has grown and thrived, through struggle and wandering in the desert, through ministers coming and going, through dreaming and hard work. And here we are, 65 years later, stronger than ever!

Bread not Stone: A Singe Garment of Destiny

Bread not Stone: A Singe Garment of Destiny

In an essay called “Credo,” Rebecca Solnit wrote, “Take care of yourself and remember that taking care of something else is an important part of taking care of yourself, because you are interwoven with the ten trillion things in this single garment of destiny that has been stained and torn, but is still being woven and mended and washed.”

Recently, Rod Belshee (our Board president) and I participated in a meeting of the Inland Congregations United for Change group—an early gathering of clergy and lay leaders from congregations in the east of the Coachella valley, coming together to collectively plan for how we might all respond faithfully to the painful reality of our current situation—how we can weave and mend and wash together.

It was an early meeting, nothing concrete was planned yet, but this is one way that we in our congregation are finding ways to live into our interconnectedness in our valley home. I have also begun meeting with clergy of various faiths in Palm Springs to coordinate and support.

And a small group of congregants has been researching and listening and learning what is going on over the whole of the valley to see where we might act in support of our values and in support of our neighbors who are threatened, attacked, or ignored by the current federal administration.

This is the work of “frontline responders” as Deepa Iyer describes in Social Change Now: “addressing community, crises by marshaling and organizing resources, networks, and messages.”

Our Social Justice team already leads us in work that helps and supports our community and we are seeking to broaden and deepen that work in the face of the current crisis. Keep your ears and eyes open over the coming weeks and months as we share together ways to be faithfully effective and ways to nurture local relationships.

We do this because it is the right thing to do. We do this because our neighbors are in peril and we want to protect them. We do this because the values we profess—of justice and interdependence and pluralism and generosity—hold us to this work. We do this because we are interwoven into a single garment.

in peace and love

Rev. Ian

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  Dear ones, the new year arrives as it always does. Whatever we do, the day and nights and the seasons continue in their cycles. My heart is full thinking of our community and the ministry we do together: a ministry of healing, a ministry of transformation, a...

Bread not Stone: A Singe Garment of Destiny

In an essay called “Credo,” Rebecca Solnit wrote, “Take care of yourself and remember that taking care of something else is an important part of taking care of yourself, because you are interwoven with the ten trillion things in this single garment of destiny that has been stained and torn, but is still being woven and mended and washed.”

Recently, Rod Belshee (our Board president) and I participated in a meeting of the Inland Congregations United for Change group—an early gathering of clergy and lay leaders from congregations in the east of the Coachella valley, coming together to collectively plan for how we might all respond faithfully to the painful reality of our current situation—how we can weave and mend and wash together.

It was an early meeting, nothing concrete was planned yet, but this is one way that we in our congregation are finding ways to live into our interconnectedness in our valley home. I have also begun meeting with clergy of various faiths in Palm Springs to coordinate and support.

And a small group of congregants has been researching and listening and learning what is going on over the whole of the valley to see where we might act in support of our values and in support of our neighbors who are threatened, attacked, or ignored by the current federal administration.

This is the work of “frontline responders” as Deepa Iyer describes in Social Change Now: “addressing community, crises by marshaling and organizing resources, networks, and messages.”

Our Social Justice team already leads us in work that helps and supports our community and we are seeking to broaden and deepen that work in the face of the current crisis. Keep your ears and eyes open over the coming weeks and months as we share together ways to be faithfully effective and ways to nurture local relationships.

We do this because it is the right thing to do. We do this because our neighbors are in peril and we want to protect them. We do this because the values we profess—of justice and interdependence and pluralism and generosity—hold us to this work. We do this because we are interwoven into a single garment.

in peace and love

Rev. Ian

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Dear ones,

As you read this we are heading toward Election Day on November 5. Though we know (and fear) that we won’t know for sure the results of the election on that day, it will certainly be a moment of great change in our political and social lives.

I know that many of you carry anxiety and fear and anger and disbelief at the state of our political and social lives. I do as well. And I am reminded strongly in times like these why we come together in community. To care for each other. To share our fears and anxieties so that we can feel heard and seen and so that we can see and hear those we care for. To share our joys and hopes so that we can strengthen and enliven our individual and collective possibilities.

Bread not Stone: The Past and the Future

Dear ones,

An ad was placed in The Desert Sun in October of 1959 that asked readers “Are you a Unitarian and don’t know it?” It was placed by the Rev. Ray Manker, from Riverside. And then on the evening of Wednesday, October 19, 1959, a diverse collection of people—a few humanists, liberals, and at least one person who was already Unitarian—gathered for the first time at the Palm Springs Chamber of Commerce office.

Since then, this community has grown and thrived, through struggle and wandering in the desert, through ministers coming and going, through dreaming and hard work. And here we are, 65 years later, stronger than ever!

Bread Not Stone: Growing Spiritually

Bread Not Stone: Growing Spiritually

Bread Not Stone: Growing Spiritually

Our theme in worship for the month of April is “Growing Spiritually” and our Sunday services will be inviting us deeper into spiritual reflection and practice as we continue to live into the reality of the wider world. I’m delighted that we are welcoming Rabbi Jules King and Lauren Nile back to our pulpit to share their perspective and wisdom.

Growing spiritually is going to be a deep part of my upcoming sabbatical. A reminder that I will be away from the congregation on sabbatical from July 1 through Labor Day. A sabbatical is an extended time for the minister away from the day-to-day work of the congregation for study, rest, reflection, and rejuvenation. This time away helps to decrease burnout in long-term ministries and give the minister opportunity for renewal and deepening in their ministry.

Part of my plan for sabbatical is to reengage more deeply with my own spiritual practices and to study and deepen my connection to my own theological grounding in religious naturalism. I’m also hoping to deepen my understanding of the Taoist tradition which has been intriguing me for many years now. I hope that this deepening will pay itself out in my preaching and teaching over the coming years and in the ways I call us to stay connected to our larger Unitarian Universalist theologies.

During the time of my sabbatical, I will be fully away from the congregation and out of contact. The Board, the Committee on Ministry, the Worship Team, and the Care Committee have been in conversation about how the congregation will manage in my absence. To that end, the congregation has hired a minister who will be available for pastoral care and who will preach four times in July and August (about what I would preach).

I am delighted to share that we have asked the Rev. Everett Howe to serve our congregation as Sabbatical Minister during my absence. Rev. Everett lives in San Diego and has served congregations there in many capacities, including as Minister at the Summit Unitarian Universalist Fellowship in Santee (outside of San Diego). Rev. Everett also works for our Unitarian Universalist Association supporting our online Worship Web resource and the upcoming new online hymnal. He is a valued colleague and I know you’ll be in good hands over the summer with him. You’ll have an opportunity to meet him in June and I’ll be sharing ways you can get to know his work in the months ahead.

Sabbaticals are wonderful opportunities for renewal for both the congregation and the minister who serves them. I am grateful for this time for rest and study—as I remain grateful to be your minister as we continue crafting this shared ministry together.

in peace and love

Rev. Ian